If you feel like you are being taken advantage of, respect yourself enough to confront the situation.
You should want to give, but you shouldn’t be forced to always give more than you get. When you notice that a friend is always taking from you without giving back, you might need to distance yourself from them for a while. You deserve to be with friends who make you smile – friends who don’t take you for granted – friends who won’t leave you hanging. They’re the ones who sat silently with you when you needed a moment to think, who lent you a shoulder when you needed to cry, and who tolerated not having all the answers, but stood beside you anyway.ĭon’t look for a friend who will solve all your problems look for one who will face them with you. If you think about the people who have had the greatest positive effect on your life – the ones who truly made a difference – you will likely realize that they aren’t the ones that tried to give you all the answers or solve all your problems. They are not a true friend and they don’t deserve to be treated as such. If you know someone who avoids the truth by telling you only what you want to hear, they do so for their own benefit, not yours. When you keep someone in your life who is a chronic liar, and you keep giving them new chances to be trusted, you have a lot in common with this person – you’re both lying and being unfriendly to YOU. If someone relentlessly judges you by your past and holds it against you, you might have to take matters into your own hands, and repair your present and future by leaving them behind. Let go of their negativity, find peace, and liberate yourself!Ī true friend never holds the unchangeable past against you instead, they help your repair your present and future. Do not help them by acknowledging their begrudging behavior. They may not be able to stand the fact that you’re growing and moving on with your life, and so they will try to drag your past to catch up with you. Some people will refuse to accept that you are no longer who you used to be – that you’ve made mistakes in the past, learned from them, and moved beyond them. (Angel and I discuss this in more detail in the “Relationships” chapter of 1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently.) 4. Doing so doesn’t mean you hate them, it simply means you respect yourself. Remember, encouraging things happen when you distance yourself from discouraging people. The greatest hearts and minds – the people you should spend time around – make you feel that you, too, can become great. Beware of friends who try to belittle your ambitions. Don’t ever let your so-called friends turn your sky into a ceiling.
It may be difficult, but don’t let these negative imposters bring you down.
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Unfortunately, some who seem like your friends will try to hold you back from your full potential. The people still standing beside you are your true friends. Seriously, when you come out the other side of a difficult period in your life, look around you. So take note of who remains in your life when times get tough, especially the people who sacrifice the resources they have in their life to help you improve yours when you need it most. Thus, it’s not who’s standing beside you during good times, but the ones who stick by you through tough times that are your true friends. True friendship and good character is all about how a person nurtures another person when they are vulnerable and can give very little in return.
True friends love and appreciate each other just the way they are. The quality of the happiness between two people grows in direct proportion to their acceptance, and in inverse proportion to their intolerance and expectations. They see your flaws as features that make you interesting and beautiful. A true friend, on the other hand, has your very best interests at heart and would NEVER…Īs flawed as you might be, as out of place as you sometimes feel, and as lacking as you think you are, you don’t have to hide all the imperfect pieces of yourself from a true friend. A fair-weather friend flatters you when the sun is shining and the birds are chirping.
An acquaintance has a little something in common with you and merely enjoys your company for a short time.
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